STEP FIFTH - PHONE CONVERSATION.

What you should know about phone conversations with your FOREIGN BRIDE.

You can ask your FOREIGN BRIDE about talking to her on the phone when you feel to be ready. It can be after 2-3 letters or after 2-4 months. Send her your phone number, ask her about her phone number, and ask if it would be ok for you to call and the best time for her to talk to you. BE PUNCTUAL AND CALL THE EXACTLY TIME which you tell her in your letter.

A FEW SIMPLE RULES OF PHONE CONVERSATION WITH FOREIGN BRIDE:

1. Remember that English is not native language of your BRIDE and it may be a little difficult to her understand you. Even if her English is very good, there can be some problems with the phone connection.
2. Remember that she does not know your character well and your FOREIGN BRIDE would like to know more about you. Not speak with your FOREIGN BRIDE only about weather or about your feelings. Your and her feelings are very important for both of you, but in the first few phone conversations, it is very important to know more information about you and her.
3. Remember that culture of your country and her country can be very different. Be patience.
4. Try to speak slowly and use simple words and simple phrases. Your BRIDE will be able to understand stand much better.
5. Don't forget ask her about her parents and children. It will be make her happy and show that you are a caring man.
6. Listen what she will tell you about herself and her family and you can learn very much about her and her life.
7. It is ok to joke with her but remember that jokes can be different in your country.
8. Don't call often to you FOREIGN BRIDE. Give to her time to think about your phone conversation and missing you and your voice.
9. Remember about different time between your countries!
10. Don't be angry if you call to your BRIDE and hear a man's voice. He can be brother, father or just friend of her or her mother! Believe to your FOREIGN BRIDE and it will be very good for your relationships with her! Remember that most important her final decision. Each of you must have chance!
11. Don't speak with your BRIDE about sex by phone. You can use for it special time. FOREIGN BRIDES hate to speak about sex by phone and most will all stop correspondence with you.

Well, you are ready to meet your BRIDE. You can learn more about it from our next section "MEETING WITH BRIDE".