Well, this is FOURTH STEP - CORRECT CORRESPONDENCE.

It is a very important step on way to your future - finding the right FOREIGN BRIDE for
a happy family with mutual LOVE and understanding.
You are starting to get letters from BRIDES now and they have new reason of wanting to get to know you - your letters to them!
DO NOT SHOW YOURSELF LIKE BEING THE PERFECT MAN! FOREIGN BRIDES DO NOT LIKE THIS!

What will get the attention of FOREIGN BRIDE or the FOREIGN FIANCE?

First of all, be friendly. Pay attention to her letters. Write your letters
as she is the only woman in your life, even if you have correspondence with a few women.
Be honest with BRIDE and she will return to you it back. Do not write to her that you have correspondence with other women, but answer her honestly, if she asks you about it.
Do not ask her to she stop her correspondence with other men. Especially at the start of your correspondence with her. You should not try to control this. She should also not try to control you. Remember, that each of you must have the chance to find right
person in your life.
Do not ask the women to delete her profile from Internet. It would be much better to do this together when you meet. Or just ask her about it, but ONLY AFTER your meeting with her and only if you have strong desire to have MARRIAGE with this woman! However, we do not recommend paying much attention to this.
People can forgot to delete all of the sites on Internet, also some other not reparable MARRIAGE AGENCY can put her on there site with out her permission, her photos and information used without her knowing about it.
Therefore, we are not recommending that you show a very strong character in this very small and not important question.
Foreign BRIDES like when men have one or a few interesting hobbies. Write to her about it and send photos if you have. It will be very interesting to FOREIGN BRIDE and she can imagine how your life will be together.
FOREIGN BRIDES like pets very much and small interesting stories about your life. This will help her learn about your character. Do not forget send to her photos of your pets.
Sending photos in your letters is very important, because FOREIGN BRIDES at this time can only learn only from your letters and your photos. As many photos that you can send about your like the better, 2-3 photos in one letter would be good. This can help you very much in future, because first - you will show to BRIDE
that you are serious. Second - she will see much from your life and there will not be misunderstanding on the meeting. The more both of you can know about each other's live the better. Example- your life, house, car, relatives, pets, friends etc. Remember one very important thing about FOREIGN BRIDES - YOU WILL GET BACK WHAT YOU GIVE: Just be honest! She will "close her eyes" on many your weakness and whims, if she feels your love and that you will take good care of her and if she has children.
Other important thing which you need to know about FOREIGN BRIDES (especially from former USSR) - is their love for their children. Do not believe if woman tells you that you are more important than her children. There are very little reason that a women from former USSR can leave her children, you must be very careful if she tells you this. Only if she have special reason for it as for:
- if children study in University and strongly don't want to study abroad. This can be only be if it's last year in the University;
- if her children's age is 18 years old (for Europe) or 21 years old (for USA & Canada) the mother can't take them automatically with her;
- if her children have they own family;
This is usual situation. If you have special situation and do not know what to do - you can ask your question to our special manager and send letter to e-mail address: help_us@dream-of-you.com
Try to write your letters that BRIDES will be interesting to read it. Remember life of women from the former USSR can be very hard. Kind and interesting letters from you can make her day and her love for you will growing day-to-day, letters to letter.
Remember about holidays and try to send to her gifts on it. This can be flowers or just a simple e-mail card via Internet. It will be very strong reason to woman thinking about you, knowing that you are thinking about her.
She will see that you care about her not only now, but when you will be together. She will try to congratulate you on your holidays too, because remember - you get back what you give!

Important holidays for women from former USSR.

- First most important holiday - of course it is her birthday and birthday of her child. Do not forget about it ever and she will believe in your love all your life. This is very important for relationships because it'll show you are a serious and loving man and husband in future.
- 31 of December - New Year's holiday. This is most important holiday in the former USSR and she will never understand if you will ignore this holiday. More about this holiday, you can read on this part of our INTERNATIONAL MARRIAGE AND DATING WEB SITE "HOLIDAYS"
- 14 of January - Old New Year's holiday. This is old Russian tradition and all people celebrate it like New Year's holiday. More about this holiday, you can read on this part of our INTERNATIONAL MARRIAGE AND DATING WEB SITE "HOLIDAYS"
- 14 of February - Valentines Day. Of course you know this holiday. This is new holiday for people from former USSR, but they like it very much. Our advice - only congratulate in letter or Internet card if you know her not long time. However, will be very good if you can send to her small gift and flowers if you speak with her about love in your letters.
- 8th of March - this is Woman's Day and all women in former USSR like this holiday and traditionally they get many small gifts from men-friends, boyfriends, husbands and even from absolutely unfamiliar men. More about this holiday you can read on this part of our INTERNATIONAL MARRIAGE AND DATING WEB SITE "HOLIDAYS"
- Easter - date of it is not exactly and you have ask about it each year. This holiday is very important for people from former USSR .
- 1st of May - not very strong holiday but people have a few days off. You'll surprise your bride if you'll congratulate with this holiday in your letter. Not much people know about this holiday and you can show to your BRIDE that you try to learn traditions of her country. This will be very good.
- 1st of September - this is holiday only for children that are going to school or to Universities. Will be very good if you can congratulate your BRIDE with this day and maybe a little help to her so her child will be ready go to school.
We are strongly recommended to remember about birthdays and New Year's holidays - two most important holidays for people who are live in the former USSR. You can forget about a woman or man all year but congratulate them with birthdays and New Year's holidays and you can turn your broken relationships back!
Well - you know now all most important holidays in the former USSR and you can be very attentively to it. Remember - there are holidays are very important in life of BRIDES from former USSR and you have chance to be in the mine of your BRIDE all time!!!

What more? A few suggestions
- remember that your native language and native language of your BRIDE are very different. Do not be upset her letters. She writes only in English that she knows. Maybe her English is not very good and she wants to say things correctly but she cannot.
- remember the cultures in your country and her country are very different and what can be good for you maybe not good for her. Be patient and try to understand. Maybe she will accept your traditions. May be you and she will have your own traditions of your own family. Be patient. This is the only good way for understanding and love.
- try to write soft letters without arguments. FOREIGN BRIDES (especial from former USSR) do not like things pushed on them. Always try to have understanding! Never try to control her life, it is impossible as it would be for her to control yours. I have seen very many good relationships ruined between a good man and woman because he or she wanted to have total control of the others life.

. Foreign men do not always understand life in the former USSR and can have some doubts in the words of his BRIDE. You can get very good and happy family with loving, caring and understanding wife only if you will believe in her and show it to her. Yes, for some of men may be its difficult, but we did not promise to you that it would be easy. We had promised only that it would be truth.
- be attentive to her letters and questions in it. Try to answer on all of it. It will show to the FOREIGN BRIDE that you are serious man and read her letters.
- And last advice - NOT HAVE LONG CORRESPONDENCE ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE SERIOUS IN YOUR SEARCH. ONLY MEETING IN REAL LIFE CAN GIVE TO YOU THE ANSWER ON GENERAL QUESTION - YOU HAVE CHEMISTRY WITH YOUR FOREIGN BRIDE OR NOT?
So, you have correspondence with your FOREIGN BRIDE some time and you'd like to hear her voice by phone. You'll know everything about it from other section of our INTERNATIONAL MARRIAGE AND DATING WEB SITE"PHONE CONVERSATION"